How can i generate a 3D plot with more details?

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You can use plot3d to plot your surface and then add to that Graphics object the collection of points you want to visualize:

sage: N = 3
sage: f(x,y)=x^2+y^2
sage: G = plot3d(f, (x,-N,N), (y,-N,N))
sage: points_list = [ (a,b,f(a,b)) for a in [-N..N] for b in [-N..N] ]
sage: G += point(points_list, color='red')
sage: show(G)

Here's a working demo:

http://aleph.sagemath.org/?q=784f1e88...